Friends Are the Best Roommates: Myth or Truth?
People seem to be divided into two opposing camps all the time: there are dog vs. cat lovers, those who love Hawaiian pizza and those who will despise you if you dare to combine meat and pineapple; and, of course, there are people who can’t imagine living with anyone else but their best friend and those who are sure that it’s a terrible idea. What camp do you belong to? If you are not sure, it is a good idea to keep reading this article to discover all the benefits and pitfalls of having your BFF as a roommate.
Important things to consider
Sure, having a close friend who has always been there for you is a huge advantage when you begin this new frightening stage of your life. It is especially important to people who suffer from social anxiety. In this case, living with a close person is not only a matter of comfort, but a necessity. On the other hand, if you prefer to hang out with your school mate all the time, you may end up not being able to make new friends. While old friends are near and dear to your heart, you shouldn’t avoid making new acquaintances.
It is common for friends to be completely different. Judging from my own experience, introverts often stick around extroverts, and they make really good friends, but there is no way I would move in with my BFF. For me, a 100% introvert, the mere thought of having my friend around 24/7 is overwhelming. As much as I love her, I know I would get annoyed with her at some point, while she would get bored. So, sometimes, it is better to have some space not to have your friendship ruined by silly arguments.
It’s really great if you and your BFF are roommates with similar preferences. For instance, if you are a huge fan of soccer and want to have your living space decorated accordingly, you can do it together, which will make your bond even stronger. Moreover, think of all the parties you can throw during the game nights. However, if your friend doesn’t share your interest, this could really cause nasty inconveniences. Taking this into consideration, it would be more reasonable to look for a roommate who has the same interests and views on how the things should be arranged otherwise you may feel uncomfortable and frustrated.
We all grow up watching slapstick movies and TV shows that present us how cool it is to live with your BFF, how adventurous and exciting that is. Nevertheless, it may sound hackneyed, but life is neither a show nor a movie. It is much more complicated. So, if you have been planning to live with your BFF since you were kids, you might want to reconsider your decision. Just take some time, think of what is important to you when it comes to daily routine and sharing an accommodation, and judge for yourself whether your friend will make a great roommate and if you can tell the same about yourself.